TINKER, TAILOR

Sun (Auckland), Volume IV, Issue 950, 17 April 1930, Page 6

TINKER, TAILOR

I Dear Miss Rutledge,— I am 24 years of age, and I am very much in love with a man three years older than myself, but although he takes me out, and treats me with respect, I do not think he returns my affection. In the meantime, another man has asked me to marry him. He says he is very much in love with me, but I only look on him as a friend. Please advise me what to do. DESPAIR. Why not remain just friends for the time being with both men? In the near future, developments might occur to guide you to a happy decision. Xo. 1 man might awaken one of these days to declare his love for you, especially if he gets an inkling that somebody else likes you. On the other hand, later on, you may change your mind regarding Xo. 2 man by reason of a ma turer friendship, and thus return his Do not rush these things. Take your • - being of the man as well as' yourself regarding the possibility of marriage. Do not forget that the contract is “till death us do part,” unless, of course, you are compelled to v join the sad army of divorcees, and you do not want to start life with that possibility on the horizon. AXXE RUTLEDGE. LONELY ! Dear Miss Rutledge.— I have been very much interested lin the manner in which you have Irell* d people through The Sun newsj paper. i\ f am 19 years of age, and would j very much like the company of a i girl companion, as I feel rather lonely at times. I nave a motorsycl . but i have never gone In for I dancing. Can vou suggest what I should do? T.T. Look around your immediate circle, j and surely you must find some young i>eople with whom you could mix, and 1 go to dances, social evenings, etc., where S you would be Sure to meet many young I girls. Go out of your way to become acI quainted with the right people by doing little kindly acts, and by helping others ! you will be helping yourself. Why not attend a dancing class with ; the idea of going to dances this coming AXXE RUTLEDGE.