THE QUALIFICATIONS FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE.

Daily Telegraph (Napier), Issue 3153, 5 August 1881, Page 4

THE QUALIFICATIONS FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE.

b certain sort of talent ia almost indispensable for people who would spend years together and not bore themselves to death. But the talent, like tae agreement, must be for and about life. To live happily together, they should be versed in the niceties of the heart, and born with a faculty for willing compromise. The woman must be talented as a woman, and it will not much matter although she is talented in nothing else. She must know her metier de femme, and have a fine touch for the affections. And it is more important that a. person should be a good gossip, and talk pleasantly and smartly of common friends and the thousand and one nothings of the day and hour, than that she should speak with the tongues of men and angels; . for a while together by the fire happens more frequently in marriage than the presence of a distinguished foreigner to dinner. That people should laugh over the same kind of jests, and have many a story of "grouse in the gun-room," many an old joke between them which time cannot wither nor custom stale. is a better preparation for life, by your leave, than many other things higher and better sounding in the world's ears. You could read Kant by yourself, if you wanted, but you must share a joke with someone elso. You can forgive people who do not follow you through a philosophical disquisition, but to find your wife laughing when you had tear* in your eyes, or staring when you were in a fit of laughter, would go some way towards n dissolution of the marriage.—-" 'Virginibu Puerisque, , and other Papers," by R. L. Stevenson.