WEDDING WORRIES.

Dominion, Volume 2, Issue 545, 28 June 1909, Page 3

WEDDING WORRIES.

marriages,", says; an English', paper,' although modern) brides; have ■ succeeded in■■ overcoming ;many ?'oi and fears ! which the 'year- impossible'without defying at least -tfi^;superstitijpn6 r ;;:But:'the' majority, 'of 'prl3•.Btill^havp''a , natural leaning towards'a 1 season at. which no fears have: to be'propitf-' ;ated., 7 " ::.It.-;'. provides : : unconditionally against one. worry/',Thit/brJdeb,. should have no 'worries' Vis!;': amongst .the. most'.. unreasonable aaauniptibns ,of.;those:.who 'play -an auxiliary, part in the weddingicoremony. 'As a mii,t-ter;:of,fMtj:,the;-,bride'hiis;tb' be' the' cheerful recipient ..or. the anxieties'' of, all her relations and "friends /who' are; suffering from that pecubar phase of:- selfishness.; known ■'as'-'' sympathy. .'.lt 'is in the innocent guise of••sy.mthe .bride"finds all;the worms of .her'family.(put;upon.her shoulders.'■; No : matter \ how, beautifully'itis .thrust'upon her,- the/semi-iragio'; condition of.parents' is not'ah inspiring .influbric'e, when'-.it". her ?bwn ; state ''of■; happiness appear, "almost '•; But/abride'h'as not only to be the support of.-, herj.familyjs' 'courage; ■', and at .the,, same time,endeavour, to;!shut\out from her!;' own mind .-.the, ever-pTesent.' insinuation that', she isiibflictirig unreasonable suffering; on others. .\Vorriee from with-. areTfew; diplomatists whoi would have thertact.and skill ;to amotig Only the;'bride 'who has isuccessfully brought: her; supporters '; : <.tb the; altar; knows "how; muchvdepends' upon; an;.almost ;;piti'abte'■ degree, of smiling , ac-' quiescence;. The managing,bridesihai<f is an awful .self-reliant :bridei W'ho.;is at'.tbe.'same'time -anxious to please everyone on;her, departure for married life.'-.■' ': -'A>.whole';; chapter,'of.. worries ■' fori brides, lies /behind' the, subject'.'of wedding; presents;. The; givers 'oL wedding •. gifts ..never, appear: to' realise^; ;thSt-i".there;' are ■•'.'•few,; things ; .which' borne;so,inappfbpriately : to an already':pver-: whelmed.,:brideVjas. to;be itaken:Unto :confi-' dchoe 'oohqerriing 'momentous secrets' .sur-rbuhdingvthe-mp6t' humdrum ;and uninspired Wedding;;prcseaiiv:':-: 1 ; \; : ■. /,.; ■•■ -.'. ',■'■' ■;■■:'■;>.-.-:.'\'': hot'raise herb-for the'bride.);>She.hasftb'ibe,-;in' an; unvarying, mood. tO;a6cepb-.the;'mos£ conflicting,'if w'ellmeant;';.advjco:;*;;Furnisliingi-. ;hbusekeepin'g,. ahoV-'seryants'r:are•••;theV.leading '.topics '.upon which who; haß- to" ma^r,;aU' l ;thi'ee,''prbblonis. , ia •inexhaustible.v could;be spared; a .foretaste of thb Vorries,'pf married' life jibutinpt i.oveh'-ihis;' much ■ consideration is -.Bhe-'given .by-those, who 'might ./almoßt be injleague to drive brides'to ; a pobt.of dk-; ' y ; y, s '

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