HINTS TO MAKE HOME HAPPY.

Auckland Chronicle and New Zealand Colonist, Volume 2, Issue 66, 7 November 1844, Page 3

HINTS TO MAKE HOME HAPPY.

To Husbands.-—Keep up the prac- • tice of reading the paper during the whole of breakfast time; of allowing yourself to bespoken to half-a-dozen times before j you answer; and then of asking your wife what it was that she said. Upon her telling you, make some reply which • is nothing to the purpose, as if you were <e thinking of something else. Having been • Out over night at an evening party, which your wife was prevented from going to by indisposition, entertain her the next morning by a minute description of the * youg lady you danced with, descanting on every point as enthusiastically as possible. Take frequent opportunities ot ,r praising features and personal peculiaritfe* which are as different as possible from your wife's. For instance, if she has blue eyes, say how you like black ; if -dark hair, how much you admire light; if she is tall, remark that yon prefer a * moderate heigth ; and if short, be constantly quoting Byron, to the effect that you "hate a dumpy woman." Some wives are very particular about their fenders.' Should this be the case with yours, always use it for your footstool. When ftesh drugget has been laid down on the

stairs, particularly if it is a rainy day, invariably- forget to scrape your shoes. Discover, frequently, on a cold raw morn* ing, that the room is close, and insist on having the windows open. On the other hand,* be as often, during the height of the dog-days, affected with a chilliness, which shall oblige you to keep them shut. Very often order dinner punctually at five, and very seldom come home till a quarter to six. Occasionally, however, t return at the appointed hour, and, not finding things ready, complain that you are never attended to. If your fish, your joint, or your vegetables, should happen accidentally to be a little under or over

done, never smother your disappointment like some people, but express it as markedly as you can, and remain in an ill humour for the rest of the evening. Be never quite satisfied with what is set before you; but, if possible, find some fault

,with every dish, or if not, quarrel with the arrangement of the table. If you can find nothing else to grumble with, think of something that you would have liked

better than what has been got for you, -and say so.—Occasionally wives make pies and puddings, with a view to a little approbation. Never bestow this, on any account; but always say you wished these things were left to the cook. Knowing that there is nothing but cold meat in the house, bring home, every now and then, half-a-dozen men, unexpectedly, to take pot-luck with you. Your wife-will probably sit at the table flurried and uncomfortable ; in which case, amuse them by joking at her expense. Should you chance, after dinner, to be affected by a slight drowsiness, .never resist it because your wife wishes to chat with you : do not mind her, but go quietly to sleep. When you have an evening party at your house, come home to dress just as the company is beginning to arrive. Should you find at eleven o'clock at night among a -set of bachelor friends, and be offered a cigar, always stay and smoke it, and another after if you like, and, if you please, another after that—in fact, as many as you find agreeable; never trouble yourself for an instant about keeping your wife and the servants up. In short, on all occasions consult studiously your own inclinations, and indulge, without the least re-

striction, your every whim and caprice, but never -regard your wife's feelings at all! still less make the slightest allowance

for any weakness [or peculiarly of her character ; and your home will assuredly be as happy as you deserve that it should be.— Punch. Extravagance Mrs. Barger, of 3?etersville, Md., about eighteen months ago was safely delivered of three fine children, and the same lady, last month, presented her husband with four healthy children at a birth. Seven children in eighteen months ! Middleton must have a soil so fertile that married folks will be afraid to reside there in these hard times.— New York Sun. Communion Services for the Navy.—Ten services of communion plate are ordered to be sent to each dockyard to be placed in charge of the storekeepers, who are to furnish each ship to which a chaplain is appointed with one service of plate. It is to be given in charge to the chaplain, who will be held responsible for it.